I’m not really into classical traditions. We celebrate Christmas away, and even though I experienced easter carols, easter holidays and everything that goes with it even the visit of church, it didn’t leave the need to repeat it in me. I don’t have anything against it, let everyone do anything they want, but I enjoy more the traditions I create by myself. And my partner enjoys them as well.
We use the Easter vacation to travel and no matter if it’s to the mountains or elsewhere, we don’t forget to enjoy the time together to the fullest. I’d like to share with you our traditions and I believe that they may be at least inspirational for some of you to spice the time between visits.
EASTER EGGS
Long as anyone can remember, eggs were the symbol of birth, harvest, fertility, and new life. The decorating of eggshells was tradition even in prehistoric time and it has lasted since now… I’m not quite into it but egg masturbators are my go-to thing for many years now. You know that I’ve tested plenty of different brands for example the brand Tenga, APHAJOY LICKING JUMP EGG Pink, or EGG. And because we enjoy trying new things, there will be Satisfyer egg masturbators and bigger ones from Svakom in our basket. You can read the whole review here.
SOMETHING NEW
It’s true that I am not that much into customs but as my partner likes to say, I remember them as well as sayings when they are handy for me and sometimes, I even strictly demand following them. One of my favourite sayings is that if you want to prevent getting pooped on from an Easter bunny, you need to have something new to wear on the Easter Monday. Us women, have a unique chance to expand our closet.
We can have new lingerie (my tip), clothing, accessories such as shoes, purses, belts, or jewellery.
SEXY EARS
Another tradition, which I absolutely adore are bunny costumes. There is a reason for the saying “fucking like a rabbit”. I think that bunnies are sexy, I like the classical hefner’s costumes or various lingerie options. I have various versions of the costumes which I purchased over the years and which I already posted about, anyways I feel like bunny ears are great spice for the everyday stereotype.
BDSM EASTER
If you follow the customs and you don’t quite enjoy being „beaten“, how about changing the roles on the evening-and I don’t mean the custom that you can pour water on men after noon, I’m not quite sure if someone would be into it. Why don’t you try whips, handcuffs, reprimands, and other things in your games?
Many people see BDSM games as being beaten to blood, being humiliated, which is quite wrong impression. It’s mainly about sexual arousal. The only aim of using all the utilities is to get aroused to the maximum and try new way of pleasure. We can reach it through demands, punishments which can surely have a form of violence or humiliation in physical or mental way. But the only goal is arousal, not harm-and the pleasure needs to be on both sides.
It doesn’t matter where your borders are and what will happen during your session. We all have different needs and different border of pain and pleasure. If you want to incorporate whips, handcuffs, ropes and another BDSM utilities for Easter, you need to agree on it. The honest and open agreement needs to be about what you enjoy, like and agree to do. This is the base, and you shouldn’t do it without the consent of your partner. And if you decide to use whips, handcuffs, ropes, choking or pissing which is taken as a BDSM technique, it’s all up to you.
You know that I like to explore everything new and unknown. Anyway, these games and also roleplay feel mentally and physically tiring so I’d recommend them on holidays or during customs such as Easter. I feel like in daily life when you are busy or at least one you is, there isn’t time for that. And you might not meet your expectations. Even though I share various tips how to enjoy non-bonding relationships, I feel like BDSM techniques are better to try with a person that you know a bit at least and that you can trust.